Mad at My Husband

I was ticked off at my husband this morning. Turns out it was unjustified. I had set something down, carefully, last night, and it wasn't there this morning. I was annoyed that he had moved it, and annoyed in anticipation of finding it carelessly disturbed, expecting it would take some work to fix it. Typical.

And then I found it someplace else, in the place where I had actually carefully set it down last night, unmoved and undisturbed. And I wondered how often I get irritated with my husband when he hasn't actually done anything irritating. And I wonder how that colors our relationship. Seems like we'd both be happier if I could stop it.